Birthdays

I have a very weird “relationship” with my birthday. Most of my history with it is not the best. Last year I tried something completely different. I didn’t mention it to anyone. My birthday came and went without the slightest notice to me from anyone in the world. It was odd but kind of nice. No expectations, nothing. Just another day.

This year I approached my birthday the same way. No expectations. As it turned out, my best friend took me out to dinner. It was nice too! :D

As a corollary, I was raised that holidays (including birthdays) were a really BIG deal! That the day itself was important and had to be perfect! I much prefer my current approach. Absolutely celebrate holidays, but in a way that works. If it doesn’t work to celebrate on “the day” then pick another one and go with the flow!

Very revolutionary I know but it is SO much less stress!!

Perspective – I love it!